Jiangxi girls mind being eager to "delight" but are less likely to act

26 is the last female? My sister is very mindful

A survey shows that sisters are mindful of the fact that the two women left as females in Jiangxi Province are ranked first in the country.

In recent years, the topic of remaining females has received more and more attention, and various blind parties and dating programs have also mushroomed. On March 8th, a well-known domestic marriage website published the “Private Girl's Self-Confessions of the Chinese Women's Marriage View Series Survey”. A total of 85,498 valid samples were collected in this survey, of which 41116 were female respondents, accounting for 49%. The results showed that the threshold of the remaining female gradually changed from 27 years old in 2010 to 26 years old, and the 29-year-old woman had a strong sense of “leftover”.

Leftover Confession: Eager to "light off" but lack of action

Among the 41616 women interviewed, 84% of women have a bachelor degree or above, a master's degree or above accounted for 48%, and a monthly income of more than 5,000 yuan accounted for 85%. The higher the education and monthly income, the easier it is to “remain”. It can be seen that the so-called remaining women are mostly high-educated, highly educated, high-income “white bones” (white collar, backbone, and elite).

According to the survey, 32% of single women consider themselves to be leftover women, and 60% of leftover women consider themselves to be women. From the age of 26, the feeling that "I am the last woman" has become stronger, and the remaining female who is 29 years old, who has a strong sense of "surplus" in all age groups with a proportion of 57.9%, has generally expressed an eagerness to "light out".

Although eager to "clear", but why will become a woman? In their eyes, "the lack of ways to understand the opposite sex," "negative waiting," and "love idealism" are the main reasons for the "residue." However, in the eyes of the interviewed men, the remaining women are a group of women who are "high-sighted," "always thought that they have better," and "perfectism."

In terms of finding an object, the pressure on the woman who believes she is the last woman has reached 3.9 points (5 points, 5 points represent very great pressure), while the non-leftover woman has 3.0 points. 83% of the remaining women think that the pressure comes from their parents. There are 25 % of the remaining women were forced to marry by their parents during the Spring Festival.

Ms. Xu, a 29-year-old female white-collar worker from Nanchang, is a leftover woman in the eyes of her friends. She concludes that her “leftover” is due to her busy work, lack of social networking, and high income. As a result, her husband’s vision is higher, and there is less opportunity to meet men. Can only be left.

Sister: Mind is called a woman

There were 764 female interviewees in Jiangxi participating in the survey, and 28.7% of respondents considered themselves to be leftover women. In the question “How difficult is it that it is difficult for you to find the ideal marriage partner?”, the average score is 2.76 (5 points, 5 points is very difficult), and the ratio of “more difficult” to “very difficult” is 34. %, both values ​​are close to the national average.

The reporter noticed that 46.6% of the remaining women in Jiangxi are eager to “strike off” and lack action. “37.9% of women are tempted to be called “leftover women.” Both of these data are among the highest in the country.

Emotional Columnist: Leftovers want to recognize themselves

Emotional columnist Mei Jianfei said that the so-called leftovers are merely postponing their wedding and are not really “left over”. “Marriage is simple and simple. It's difficult and difficult to talk about. When it comes to survival, marriage is incomparable to reality. I have contacted a lot of 'leftover women' and their conditions are not bad at all. They are even superior. Many of them yearn for Love, the expectation of love is very high, just not willing to end their single life in ambiguity."

He believes that it is not difficult for the remaining women to “undress”. The first thing to do is to recognize oneself. Many people cannot see clearly about themselves. Therefore, the mate is in a state of ambiguity. He does not know what kind of love he needs and does not understand what kind of person he is. suit myself. Second, love must be well-managed, so that it can be sweet for a long time.

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