"Investigate the incident at the end of Lou Lou" investigation: The victim was told about the incident

On July 3, Li Ming, a Wugang man from Shaoyang City, who was a migrant worker in Loudi, took a swim with his wife and children, and his sister-in-law to Sunshui River. After that, there was a dangerous situation. The 27-year-old Lou Dijie Deng Jinjie drowned in the water and the Li Ming family quietly left. After the matter was disclosed by the media, netizens were angered and they all denounced.

On July 10, the public security department in Loudi started a carpet-type investigation. The Liming family accompanied them to the Deng family in related departments and said for the first time that they were "sorry."

On July 12, the reporter received Li Ming’s number from his relatives, trying to tell him the difficulties behind him. Li Ming’s message responded with an extremely rude remark and he did not respond.

On July 13, accompanied by relevant departments in Loudi, CCTV’s “Society and Law” reporter dialed Li Ming’s phone and he said “I don’t believe the reporter.”

On July 15, a reporter from CCTV disclosed that the Li Ming family had temporarily left Loudi. At present, Li Ming's phone has been unable to connect, once again disappeared in the sea.

Leave indifferently

On July 12, the sun sets. Sun Shui He is still quietly flowing, and the ripples that have been thrown in as long as he can't accumulate.

On the afternoon of July 3, Deng Jinjie walked to the side of Loushui River to walk his dog and suddenly heard someone calling for help in the center of the river. He could not take off his trousers and shoes before jumping into the river to save a family of four with several other people. . Unfortunately, he was devoured by the turbulent river and died.

When everyone scrambled out the remains of Deng Jinjie, it was discovered that the rescued family had disappeared.

"I once said to one of the women who was rescued ashore: 'He (Deng Jinjie) is the one who has taken the initiative to save people. Whatever you do, it has nothing to do with you, but you must always say thank you to others'." The scene witness Chen Keyi Testified to reporters that the rescued family had ignored his proposal at the time and waited for him to turn around. According to witnesses at the scene, Deng Xuefei recalled that at the time she had also discouraged the rescued from leaving to say thanks, but the rescued family left without saying anything.

There are also netizens posting that the family was discouraged when the family left, but the company turned around and even passed one of them.

Disappeared for seven days

On July 4th, the incident began to spread on the Internet, and netizens were angered and began to verbally attack. On July 5, after the incident was reported by the media, it quickly became a hot issue. Loudi City initially ignored the matter, and Deng Jinjie’s friends and netizens once threatened to pay a heavy reward, to find out that this home to comfort the hero in the spirit of the day, the network human flesh search was also launched.

The rescued person did not show up for a long time. The exact news was nowhere to be confirmed, and various rumors spread rapidly. Until 22:45 on July 10th, Deng Jinjie's "first seven" rescued a family suddenly appeared in the rescue hero home, claiming to be leaving quietly because "do not know", the matter came to an end, but Doubt still shrouded in the fog - why don't you know?

On July 12, the relevant departments of Loudi City confirmed that the rescued persons were Li Ming, Yang Boye's husband and wife and son Xiao Zhe, and Xiao Duzi's Yang Duo's family.

On the same day, the reporter saw Li Ming’s grandmother in Shaoyang’s hometown, Shaoyang Wugang. The old man said, “He must have been afraid of anyone looking for trouble and he would not dare to stand up.” And Li Ming’s mother Su Xiuqi’s statement also confirmed it. Grandfather's guess.

Su Xiuqi recalled: “After returning on the 3rd day, the son was not very happy and said that he was a bit uncomfortable and didn’t want to eat.” On July 4th and 5th, Li Ming and his wife Yang Baiye were resting at home. On July 6, Li Ming went out to do one morning and rested at home in the afternoon. “I feel that my son is a bit wrong, but I always thought it was uncomfortable to suffer from heat stroke.” Su Xiuqi said that Li Ming’s personality has always been introverted and he does not like to talk to his family about things outside.

On July 10, after the Li Ming family returned from the Deng family, Su Xiuqi again asked him what was going on. Li Ming lost control of his mother and said: "I was very hungry. You forced me and forced me to die. "Su Xiuqi told reporters that before Li Ming had never red-faced with her.

Show up briefly

In the view of the Deng family who lost the only son, Li Ming’s family apology on the night of July 10 was “lack of sincerity”. “Because the whole process took less than three minutes, everything went without saying it clearly.”

At 22:45 that day, Li Ming, Yang Baiye, and Yang Duo appeared in Deng Jinjie’s home and apologized to the portrait of Deng Jinjie.

In later public scenes, the three men respectively drew heads from Deng Jinjie’s parents and Deng Jinjie’s portraits and said “I’m sorry”. Li Ming looked very naturally, and Yang Bai Ye and Yang Duo cried.

“Why did you leave at the time?” Facing the questions of Deng’s parents, Li Ming replied: “At that time, I didn’t know there were people in the water.” Facing the camera, Yang Baiye said that at the time, she was completely unclear and kept floating in the water. I can't think of those things at all. On the 5th day after the incident (July 8th), she learned from her friends that the person who had saved her family had drowned. "At that time, I didn't know how to contact Deng Jinjie. Perhaps there was no such courage at that time." Yang Baiye said.

But this whole seven days of silence made Deng Jinqiu’s sister Deng Qiuqiong and her husband’s once nationals unable to relieve themselves: “Why does the nation know it, and they don’t know? (The Li Ming family) let my parents forgive them but only said two or three. In a word, we left without saying anything clearly."

Really do not know?

In seven days, there was really no news in the ears of the Li Ming family. This is a problem that Li Ming has been questioning after his brief appearance.

On the night of his apologetic rescue, Deng Jinqiu’s sister Deng Qiongqiu rushed back to her home from Loudi City, but said to the rescued person that she “knows it until July 8th,” and she said it was difficult to relieve her. “I listened to this. The words are very uncomfortable.”

On the second day, the press release provided by relevant parties mentioned that their family did not know about this until their friend came home on July 8. The rescued people also said that afterwards they would also like to stand up and thank Deng Jiadao, "but I don't know how to contact Deng Jinjie's family," and at the same time say that "there is a lot of talk outside and I'm very scared", so they didn't come to the police until they came to the door. stand out.

However, Li Ming’s Qi Su Shuwen told reporters that he had first learned through television that “Deng Jinjie saved people and the family left three.” He was on the same floor as the Li Ming family. Su Shuwen said that he was discussing this matter with his wife at the time. He was curious about who this family of three is. At the same time he believed that these people had no conscience. When he knew that he was his nephew, he immediately went to talk with Li Ming and went to the Deng family to apologize.

Does Li Mingping often watch TV? When a reporter asked about this, Su Shuwen said that there was no TV in Li Ming's room, but there was a computer. He liked to play computer after he returned home. Reporters did see a new computer in their rental house. Li Ming's mother Su Xiuqi said that he often surfs the Internet.

Reporter's notes

In addition to apologizing, it is more necessary to face

By the grace of the people, when Yongquan reported.

At the end of Lou Sheng’s life-saving event, the behavior of the rescued person leaving quietly touched the moral bottom line of the society and directly hurt the hero’s spirit in heaven. So far, besides the late apology, which is unacceptable to the general public, there are still many details of the incident that are still confusing, and suspense and strife are still lingering.

However, all this is not important. What is important is that we believe that “you know how to change and be good enough.” However, the premise of “knowing” is to be a person’s basic candidness and basic respect for good deeds, rather than simply evading and pushing.

Otherwise, what did the deceased have?

From July 3 to the present, in the course of nearly half a month, in the process of restoring the details of saving people, although Li Ming has always refused interviews with reporters, his image has gradually become clear.

Ordinary farm children, because the poor have to give up their dreams in the heart, to have children early. How to face the sudden media interviews and overwhelming public opinion condemnation? For this family of three, especially Li Ming, is an unprecedented test.

To restore Li Ming’s growth experience, we find that he is saddled with “poverty, contradictions, and tangledness”. Behind the incident is a sad figure. At the end of the interview, his parents took the reporter’s hand and said “A request for Deng Jinjie's forgiveness” was even more moving.

Rural young people who drop out of school

A village in Shuipingping Township, Wugang City, Shaoyang, surrounded by bamboo forests and dense forests and trees, is the hometown of Li Ming.

“The village has poor natural conditions, lack of water, and a lot of stone mountains. It mainly relies on planting corn to sell money and there is no other income.” In a car, the reporter encountered the village party secretary Liu Youhua, who expressed emotion.

Under the guidance of Liu Youhua, the reporter soon found the old house where Li Mingnian lived in his younger days. The reporter walked into the courtyard and saw high straw in front of the house. On the straw, door frames and windowsills, there are spider webs. Obviously, no one has lived here for a long time.

Because Li Ming graduated from junior high school and went out to work, and rarely returned home. In addition to his family's relatives, other villagers' impressions of Li Ming have been vague, and little is known about his wife Yang Baiye and his little son Yang Duo.

Li Ming's mother, Su Xiuqi, said that Li Ming had a mediocre score before junior high school. After attending high school, I read a year and went out to work. Speaking of the child's growth experience, Su Xiuqi has no way of saying anything. His son liked to paint while he was a child. Suddenly one day, the son told them that he did not want to read because he did not want to see his parents being so tired. "Because at least one art school is going to be a hundred thousand."

Subsequently, Li Ming alone went to work in Guangzhou. “We are sorry that he is too difficult inside the house. He ran out and said to go to Guangdong. He started to work as a cement worker on the construction site and was tanned in black, thin and thin.” Then Su Xiu wiped the tears from his eyes with his hands.

It is reported that when working in Guangzhou, Li Ming met with Yang Bai Ye until he was pregnant with the child's parents.

However, the information provided by the Shuiping Pingxiang Family Planning Office to reporters shows that Li Ming’s marriage status is still “unmarried,” and the township government does not have any registration information about Yang Boye and Xiaozhe. “Li Ming was only 20 years old and had not reached the legal marriage age, so he could not apply for normal marriage and childbirth procedures. The children are now four years old and have not been registered in the account.” Li Youhua, the party secretary of Li Ming's village, told reporters.

The sick and embarrassed life of parents

“In Guangzhou, we can only make more than 2,000 yuan a month and we cannot raise ourselves.” Su Xiuqi said, seeing that they make more than 200 pieces a day at the bottom of the renovation work, Li Ming came to Loudi.

In the shabby dormitory of Guanjiao, Loudi City, the external walls of the red brick were unrefined, and narrow narrow corridors were jammed into several half-meter long chicken cages. Here are dozens of outdoor workers to settle down. A family of a rental house, each 10 square meters, more than a dozen floors, single-family single-family, do not affect each other, the fourth floor of the third rental house on the left is the residence of the Li Ming family.

On the evening of July 12, when the reporter arrived, the doors and windows had been closed. Through the iron gate, there is half a bucket of water in the water dispenser in the room. Neighbors said they were still a few days ago and they disappeared on these two days. Neighbors told reporters that their family did not basically communicate with other people. It was only after the incident that everyone started talking about the family.

A medical record that the reporter saw on the window of Li Mingjia confirmed that Li Ming’s mother Su Xiuqi suffered from severe rheumatism. During the interview, Su Xiuqi took out a large bag of Chinese medicine and pointed to the blackened jar of medicine at home. Her husband also suffered from coronary heart disease and lumbar disc herniation. “After taking three Chinese medicines a day, his back pain and pain will be better after drinking. ".

Ordinary people's filial son

“Li Ming is actually an ordinary child. There is no difference between children in the countryside. There is nothing that makes me feel particularly profound.” Li Ming’s uncle Li Zifu told reporters.

Mother Su Xiuqi recalled that Li Ming had been unable to eat for himself because he had no academic qualifications and had no skills to earn any money.

But there was one thing that made Li's father deeply moved. "When I was 50th birthday, he himself saved a fare and gave me a birthday. He said that although there is no money, but my father's 50th birthday is only once, I must be back." Father Li told reporters, Li Ming returned to Guangzhou. The fare is still he got together.

Li's father had bad ears. The reporter wrote a sentence on the book: "What kind of person do you think your son is like?" He was near Lianjia. He took out a black-rimmed reading glasses from his short stool next to him, staring at his eyes. Looking at it, he replied for a long time: "Be honest and do hard work."

In 2011, Li Ming took his wife and children to the bottom of the Loudi, and also received the parents to live together. Renovation can sometimes only be a part-time job, sometimes it can't be done 20 days a month, and life is sometimes difficult. However, to let Su Xiuxi be pleased that every month, Li Ming is fixedly giving parents 800 yuan living expenses.

Feelings of sadness for parents

On July 12, in Wugang, when a reporter told a 28-year-old youth to rescue Li Ming’s family from his death, Li Ming’s grandmother was emotionally angrily and constantly beat her chest.

"They were doing too much wrong, too wrong, and mad at me." The grandmother told reporters with tears: "I never expected them (the Li Ming family) would do this, maybe because the family is poor and afraid They want to lose money, but they should apologize anyway, too sorry for someone else's children." At this time, Li Ming's grandfather was flushed and quietly sat smoking.

On the same day, Li Ming’s father also firmly held the reporter’s hand and said that my son had not done any bad things. This time it was a dead escape. If Deng Jinjie did not save them, it was him who died. My mother asked the reporter to take a message. I am really sorry that they (Deng Jinjie's family) are very sorry. The children are too young to ask them to forgive.

In Li Ming's mother Su Xiuqi's view, the son looks very sensible and knows respect for his parents, but many common sense do not understand. "This matter is a hurdle for him." Su Xiuqi said that his son has not eased himself. When he adjusts, he can handle this matter. I hope everyone will give him some time.

But Li Ming’s parents’ tears continue to linger. After Li Ming’s appearance on July 10th, the number of people coming to visit is too many. The son has left, where he’s gone, when he’ll be back, and he’s never been with his father. Mother mentioned it.

Reporter's notes

Learn to lay down and plant a good seed

The Loudi incident should draw a full stop.

A young rural student who dropped out of school struggled hard to support the basic life of his parents and his wife and children. He was already overwhelmed. This made him have some reason to escape. After all, what he could afford was very limited. In the post-mortem survey interview, we also clearly felt that the tremendous pressure on Li Ming and his family had reached the limit.

We must treat everyone kindly, whether or not we agree with his words and deeds, because this is the basic good deed of each of us; we should also tolerate the rescued family, no matter what they have done, but from their elders’ relatives, We can see that what looks like plainness is actually shocking people.

The Buddha shrines to lay down and lay down this family, both to them and to ourselves, to plant a seed of goodness.

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